WHY SUCCESS Comes with Failure?
Success is what you have in your mind.
If you think you have it, you have it,
But if you think you don’t, your journey to success will be a struggle.
And there are always bumpy roads to wherever success lives, that’s for sure.
Whenever you make a step towards your desire path, you might just need to go back a few steps to where you’re at.
Oh yes, the challenges will be there! But why so?
Success cannot live without failure because failure is the barometer of success.
It’s the same thing with shadow and light, good and evil, day and night.
When there’s no shadow, there cannot be any light, where there’s no evil you cannot grasp the good and appreciate it.
This is the same with success, hence, if you’re afraid to fail, you might as well say that you’re afraid to succeed.
But why is failure part of the recipe to success?
Well, whenever we fail in doing something, there’s a learning curb to it.
And what we learn is to distinguish the circumstances that keep us away from attaining success and how to approach the circumstances so that we get to where we want to be.
If there’s no learning, there’s little change that success will ever happen, because nobody knows until nobody tries.
Failure’s closest sister is rejection, the last thing we wish for when we’re on our way to conquer the world.
But you see, rejection is not that you’re good enough or successful enough, it could be just the fact that you’re not in the right circumstances.
Being at the right place at the right time, with the right people happens when you’re truly ready to embrace success and all its challenges that comes with it.
Until then, there’ll be rejections, failures and all that kind of stuff that we don’t want, but without which we won’t be able to have success. They say that if you have never failed, you have never tried.
So, success is for those who are confident enough that they will make it, and aren’t afraid of the obstacles ahead.
This is what success is a coin with two sides: part failure ( I rather call it "learning moments"), and part success.
Flip it and embrace whatever you get, learn from every situation and you will be successful.
The Success Team
Energetic bunch of entrepreneurs who cannot sit still!
Contributor. Cynthia is a Public Speaking and Communication Trainer. She is also the founder of The Success Factory.